The best of times, the worst of times -- A day in the life -- Several kids, special needs, but still just one you -- A Jack(ie) of all trades -- Money matters -- Ms. or Mrs. Smith? -- True love + kids= real life -- Sex and the stressed-out mom -- Motherhood : who's the expert? -- The mommy brain-or why we often can't think straight -- Get me out of here! -- You gotta have friends! -- Surviving (and seeking) solitary confinement, and other strategies for staying sane -- Where's my stand-in? -- Making your comeback (or not) -- Proud mamas : taking pride in what we do -- Afterword: Final words of wisdom.