The husband store -- The dating trenches -- The romantic comedy that predicted my future -- How feminism fucked up my love life -- Speed dating disaster -- Older and wanting to be wiser -- $3,500 for love -- The what versus the why -- Mondays with Evan--session one : the percentages -- It's not him, it's you -- Don't be picky, be happy -- Mondays with Evan--session two : the wrong assumptions -- The men who got away -- Pulling another Sheldon -- Mondays with Evan--session three : the lowdown on alpha males -- What first dates really tell us -- Are women pickier than men? -- Mondays with Evan--session four : wants versus needs -- The business of love -- Love at twenty-seventh sight -- Mondays with Evan--session five : the chemistry-to-compatibility ratio -- Dump the list, not the guy -- The good enough marriage -- A visit with the rabbi -- Claire's story : getting over myself -- Alexandra's story : Mr. Right in front of me -- Hilary's story : finding what I needed -- My story : a dating public service announcement.