Is this woman for real? How to use this book ; My personal damage ; Advice from Babe ; The weirdness factor ; Finding my voice ; Helping people help themselves -- A different kind of self-help. What is a medium, exactly? ; Talking to the dead ; How a reading works ; Magical thinking 101 ; Still a skeptic? -- What's your damage? Take an inventory ; My struggle is your struggle ; Stop blaming bad luck ; Place your order ; Team spirit -- Put your past in your past. No magic pill ; Dig in ; Root issue chart ; Get present -- Tap the source. Mental tune-up ; Get clear ; Angels, spirit guides, and ghosts-- oh my! ; Learn the language -- Do the work. Day to day ; Mental work ; Emotional work ; Physical work ; Spiritual work ; Make a connection ; The importance of doing the work ; Shelley's story -- Let go. Keep moving forward ; The purpose of your life ; The bigger picture ; The other side ; The high life ; Finally, let go! -- Appendix A. Meditation menu -- Appendix B. Additional meditations for the hard core.