How did I get here? The rhyme and reason of late-life divorce -- Getting guidance : the professional side -- Getting guidance : the personal side -- Your divorce options -- Marital property : steps to a fair division -- The big ticket items : your home, your retirement, and your family business -- More about assests, and what they're worth to you -- The bad news : debt and taxes -- The health care puzzle -- Your financial survival -- Estate planning and divorce -- The end game : finishing up and moving on -- Survival stories.