Introduction -- "Race really doesn't matter anymore" : growing up with privilege -- "The perfect place to live" : choosing schools and neighborhoods -- "We're not a racial school" : being a private school kid -- "That's so racist!" : interacting with peers and siblings -- "Everybody is white" : volunteering and vacationing -- "Shaking those ghetto booties" : family race talk -- "It was racism" : white kids on race -- Conclusion : four years later -- Acknowledgments -- Appendix A : Methodology -- Appendix B : Child participants.