Introduction -- The parent part of the book. Introduction ; Boundaries ; Parenting philosophies ; Connection ; Parents' self-care ; Not enough time ; Parental anxiety ; Reactionary parenting -- The kid part of the book. Introduction -- Engaging the toddler mind. Stop educating ; Executive functioning ; Cultivating creativity -- Working with the toddler body. Proprioception and vestibular movement ; Free play versus structured play ; More sleep, lots more ; Validating feelings -- Understanding toddler behavior. Discipline and why time-outs suck ; They just don't listen ; Transitions and preparing the child ; Food and behavior -- My final words: You got this.