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Title:
Loss, survive, thrive : bereaved parents share their stories of healing and hope / Meryl Hershey Beck ; edited by Mary Langford ; foreword by Susan Whitmore.
ISBN:
9781538125236
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Publication Information:
Lanham : Rowman & Littlefield, [2019]
Physical Description:
xvi, 330 pages : illustrations ; 24 cm
Contents:
Baby loss -- It takes a village / by Vickie Bodner -- Then and now / by Kelly Farley -- Embracing hopelessness / by Shoshana Garfield -- I am still standing after the fall / by Jo-Anne Joseph -- Illness and disease -- A gift of light / by Alice Adams -- Brandon's gifts : a father's story of love / by Robert R. Burdt -- Losing elizabeth and gaining in love / by Lucia Maya -- Honor your child by healing / by Sandy Peckinpah -- My journey from grieving to grateful / by Tina Zarlenga -- I'll be seeing you / by Michelle Barbuto -- Accident -- Living the dream / by Tim deZarn -- Embracing love and survival / by Tamara Gabriel -- Know there is more / by Ernie Jackson -- Seven lessons learned from a journey of grief / by Sharon Gabriel Rossy -- Suicide -- "I crossed myself over in a stupid way" : a mother's story of recovery / by Meryl Hershey Beck -- A gift from the stars / by Janice Crowder-Torrez -- My life reconstructed / by Kelley Ireland -- Love heals / by Candace Kay Martin -- Discovering a new normal / by Laurie Savoie -- Mental illness leading to death -- Where there's death, there's hope / by Laurie Mathes Arshonsky -- Giving voice to those who suffer / by Lynda Crane -- When tragedy brings treasure / by Michele Wollert -- Drugs -- Waking up is hard to do / by Heidi Bright -- Hunter's hope / by Tammy McDonnell -- Murder -- A single tear / by Rukiye Z. Abdul-Mutakallim -- Gold star parent -- Celebrating our shining light / by Suzanne Giesemann -- Angel wings / by JoAnn Pohlkamp -- Multiple deaths -- An intentional journey / by Marla Grant -- Epilogue -- Tools and techniques -- Resources -- Books we recommend -- Final words from some contributors -- About the author.
Summary:
No one is prepared for the loss of a child. No one. It feels completely unnatural for children to predecease their parents. Although it is not widely known, each year there are over 135,000 under 40-year-old deaths in the U.S. alone. And, according to one study, 19% of parents outlive their children—often carrying the weight of horrendous grief to their own graves. “Isolated and alone” is how parents often describe the grief process. Well-meaning friends and family members usually rush to their side... in the beginning. Once the floral arrangements have wilted, and the dinners from caring friends diminish, there isn’t really much that can be said to bring comfort to a suffering parent, especially if those friends haven’t experienced it themselves. Unfortunately, when these caring friends do bring up the loss, quite often they say the wrong things. Loss, Survive, Thrive offers a lifeline of hope. Each chapter is an inspirational story written by a parent who also experienced the agony of losing a child, reclaimed his/her vitality, and is now living a fulfilling life. Every story is authentic and heartfelt, designed to uplift and inspire. The collective authors reach out through the pages to virtually hold hands with those who are suffering. We, the contributors, have all been there. We know their pain, and we know about survival. And now, through our stories, we offer comfort and support in helping them get through the toughest time of their lives. Bereaved parents share an unspeakable bond. And Loss, Survive, Thrive imparts insight from what’s likely the only voices that grieving parents can hear—others who have walked in their shoes. This book is a giant step toward healing the grieving heart.
OCLC Number:
on1091370663
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