Foreword / Jack Nicklaus -- Introduction: Learning from the Golden Bear -- Listen to your children -- Attend your children's games and activities -- Raise each child differently -- Keep teaching--even if your child doesn't want to learn -- Act like a champion -- See the best in others -- Protect your name -- Be a parent to your children first--and a best friend later -- Stay laser-focused on what you can control -- Give more than you take in your relationships -- Build your legacy every day -- Be prepared so you're mentally tough -- Show faith through actions, not just words -- Be helpful but keep the competitive fires burning -- Be ready to seize unexpected opportunities -- Focus more on your family than on work -- Be charitable and don't draw attention to yourself -- See the bigger picture -- Afterword : leave a legacy that lasts for generations.