part 1. Coming out: How do I know I'm gay (or bi, or pan or...)? ; LGBTQ+ identities & terms ; Coming out ; Hafsa ; Dealing with difficult parts ; Dealing with bullies ; Taking care of your mental health ; Maz ; Dating & romance -- part 2. Doing it: What "counts" as sex? ; First times & having fun ; Consent & safe sex -- part 3. Finding your community: Queer spaces & friendships ; Mikaela ; How to find queer spaces IRL & online ; Style and self-expression ; See yourself ; Annie ; Activism and advocacy 101 ; Queer ladies through history ; Queer symbols through history ; Pride ; The joy of queerness -- Glossary -- Take it further -- Support.