Introduction -- Everything no one tells you about getting comfortable with disability -- Everything no one tells you about diagnosis -- Everything no one tells you about working with your medical team -- Everything no one tells you about therapies -- Everything no one tells you about insurance and government benefits -- Everything no one tells you about individualized education programs (IEPs) -- Everything no one tells you about school -- Everything no one tells you about disability rights and advocacy -- Everything no one tells you about financial planning and future care plans -- Everything no one tells you about inclusion in your community -- Everything no one tells you about what this looks like for you as a parent caregiver -- Conclusion -- Appendix -- Acknowledgments -- About the author.