Pt. 1. Modern issues in intimacy. The anatomy of modern love -- Your attention... PLEASE? -- Interrupted... Everything -- Making time to connect -- Distracters and organizers -- Seemingly selfish -- The big struggle -- Pt. 2. Resolving the problems of distraction. Struggle stoppers -- Download overload -- Eliminate toxic worry -- When your spouse has true ADD -- When your spouse feels like your child -- The New World affairs -- Time for sex -- Just how neat must a person be? -- Managing anger and frustration -- Pt. 3. Promoting passionate connection. Conation: an unfamiliar key to empathy -- Special-ize -- Building romance -- The unexpected gift -- Finding hope -- What makes it worthwhile -- 10 reasons NOT to get divorced -- 10 reasons TO get divorced -- 40 ways to make your marriage great -- 30 minutes, 30 days: a workbook for modern marriage.