You can do it! -- Love is conditional -- Tame rudeness : install a daily communication routine -- Short-circuit an argument : stop the lion that roars -- Inspire appreciation : end relationship madness -- Keep it confidential : protect your union -- Be more lovable : conquer with compassion -- Awaken your silent mate : pump up a verbal exchange -- Kick-start intimacy : engage your brain -- Deter cheating : put the "adult" back in adultery -- Criticize with influence : bark, don't bite -- Reject stubbornness : get out of your own way -- Orchestrate a perfect apology : make music for your ears -- Negotiate for love : nothing is ever 50/50 -- Control overreactions : get your point across -- Disarm the know-it-all : regain confidence in each other -- Have a good fight : end your bad fight habit -- Practice optimism : fuel your relationship -- Epilogue: you : the great partner.