Your very own self. Worst beam ever ; On turning forty ; On calling and Haitian moms ; Fashion concerns ; Run your race ; Not buying ; Tell the truth ; Thank-you notes (part 1) -- All these people who live in your house. Hope for spicy families ; Surviving school ; Dear kids ; Marriage: have fun and stuff ; Jesus kids ; Thank-you notes (part 2) -- Friends, neighbors, strangers, and enemies. Supper club ; Porches as altars ; Quirky ; Difficult people ; Bonus supper club menu ; Thank-you notes (part 3) -- Church, church people, not-church people, and God. Poverty tourism ; Dear church... ; If social media were around ; Thank-you notes (part 4) ; Dear Christians, please stop being lame ; On women.