Introduction: The real secret of classy women -- Finding your "why" : kindness knows its purpose -- Grace under fire : kindness keeps its cool even in the hot topics -- Kindness, please! : kindness recognizes the image of God in all people -- Dream big, pray harder : kindness gets ambitious for the good of others -- Bad hair days and bad heart days : kindness practices healthy self-care -- The gift of self-control : kindness takes responsibility for its choices and actions -- Come on in : kindness opens its door and life to others -- Graciously bold : kindness steps forward in confidence for what's right -- My best friendship advice : kindness works to cultivate meaningful relationships -- Sending out the bat-signal : kindness starts small and trusts every action matters -- Appendix 1: My story -- Appendix 2: How to study the Bible.