Ninety. What Happened ; Trading Places ; It's Time ; Still Kissing After All These Years ; I Should Be Over This By Now ; Dealing With It ; The New Year's Eve Party ; On Nearing Ninety ; In Praise of the Double Bed ; Telling My Age ; What We Still Argue About ; Right Now -- Sightings. Man Mowing the Grass ; The Graduation Brunch ; In the Park ; The Crestwood Village Retirement Community ; Charlie Beerman ; The Babes of the Upper East Side ; At the Nursing Home ; A Most Viable Widower ; At the Japanese Restaurant ; At the Playground -- Endings. Some of the Things That Are Not on My Bucket List ; My Stuff ; Lunch With Shirley ; My Father , the Age I Am Now ; The Remains of the Day ; Not Especially Spiritual ; Answers ; A Warning (or Maybe a Love Song) for My Husband ; Attitude ; Another Way of Looking at Things ; Lasts ; My Legacy.