Learning to live in the moment -- We're how old now? Women who are age-defies -- Persons of interest: friendship -- Do you really want an old geezer? A look at who's left on the shelf -- If it's broke, repair it: mend & tend to relationships before it's too late -- Ills, pills, and spills: sharing and caring in proper doses -- The things we do for our kids and grandkids...while we try to come first -- Inventory your work life before retirement -- Joy to our world: time to focus on our passions -- Social capital: how to stay connected while single and aging -- All roads lead (back) home -- Reaching the finish line -- Epilogue: is our inner cake baked? How we evolve as we age to live in the moment.