Straight talk about the facts of life -- What about me? -- When you are engulfed in flames -- Words to live (and die) by -- Free to a good home -- All for art's sake -- Remember where you came from -- Paying it back & paying it forward -- A gift for the generations -- A cautionary tale -- Put it in writing -- Build your fences -- How much for the kids? -- What else can go wrong? -- Heading off the buttinskies -- Turning material goods into money, then into meaning -- Going, going, gone -- Giving away the farm -- Get real about value -- Deborah's mom : keeping the stories alive -- That paper trail -- To deal with collections, understand the collector -- Downsizing the family jewels -- How to live forever.