"In more than twenty years together, Devale and Khadeen Ellis have been through a lot. The eventually landed on one surprising, essential truth: If you're looking for a healthy relationship and a fulfilling life, focus on your partner's needs instead of your wants. This will make your relationship stronger, help you achieve your own goals, and build a legacy together. The Ellises might not have all the answers, but they do know that good love takes friendship, grace, and service. Here they inspire you to be the kind of partner you want to be-- so you can build a supportive, enduring relationship." -- Adapted from jacket.